Booty Calls

Booty Calls

Someone just sent me a whole bunch of funny applications/contracts/etc. this being one of them, thank you!

This application brings up another topic I personally could never master.

I never could develop a good booty call relationship with anyone when I was single.

My problem? I like kind, deep, thoughtful men therefore none of them generally speaking were interested in just getting laid. (Or they thought they were, but once we “connected” it was a bit too hard to let it be casual for them. Meaning I am not right for all men, but the ones that saw me as right for them personally had a hard time just being fuck buddies with me.)

And the ones that were ok with the fuck buddy idea? Were often not necessarily good company. On any level. So I was never able to actually find the right booty call dude before I met my now husband.

BUT my husband has told me that when he was single, he would occasionally date women he thought it could work with as a casual thing. He would see a woman as not the right one long term but he certainly could entertain the thought of occasionally “spending time” with them.

However, that leads to my final conundrum on the topic. My husband is super cool in every way. Women didn’t like the thought of being only his “booty call”. Therefore from his perspective, it was too complicated and he never want to hurt someones feelings if it wasn’t something he saw as long term.

So this leads to you. Have any of you found the right “booty call” person? Has it worked out well? Any tips on how to find it or set it up so no one gets hurt?

Feel free to write me privately if you don’t want to splash your name on my page. I totally understand and will keep your identity private and refer to your story protectively.